Book Review: Heart of the Matter

Heart of the MatterHeart of the Matter by Emily Giffin

My rating: 4 of 5 stars

Publisher’s Description:

A powerful, provocative novel about marriage and motherhood, love and forgiveness.

Tessa Russo is a stay-at-home mother of two young children and the wife of a renowned pediatric surgeon. Valerie Anderson is an attorney and single mother to six-year-old Charlie—a boy who has never known his father. Although both women live in the same Boston suburb, they are strangers to one another and have little in common, aside from a fierce love for their children. But one night, a tragic accident causes their lives to converge in ways no one could have imagined.

This is the moving, luminous story of good people caught in untenable circumstances. Each being tested in ways they never thought possible. Each questioning everything they once believed. And each ultimately discovering what truly matters most.

Heart of the Matter was this month’s read for the book club my stay-at-home moms group just formed. This was only our second meeting and the first one I had been able to attend. Most of the other women had read some of Emily Giffin’s other books but this was my first time reading her work. I’ll admit I had my expectations set pretty low, knowing that she is considered a “chick-lit” author. I was pleasantly surprised that I enjoyed reading this book.

The story pulled me in right in from the beginning. In the first chapter Tessa and her physician husband Nick are at their anniversary dinner when he gets called away to an emergency at the hospital. Tessa recalls that she went home that night without Nick and fell asleep not knowing that this night would be a defining moment in her life – everything in her life will now be remembered as happening either before or after this night. When I read that, I was compelled to keep reading until I had a full understanding of what grew out of the events of that night. It’s hard to say much more without spoiling it for you so I’m afraid I’ll have to leave it at that as far as the plot goes.

I do think that Ms. Giffin might have a problem with stay-at-home moms. Tessa is a former career woman who has recently become a stay-at-home mom and is struggling with her identity. I can understand that – I have met many moms who feel the same way. But every other stay-at-home mom in the book is perfect in a bitchily perfect Stepford Wives meets Heathers way. It would have been nice if Tessa’s friends had more dimension to them. Even in a private school, I can’t believe that every mother would be like the ones in this book.

This book made for a great book club discussion. We discussed the several aspects of motherhood presented in this book – homemakers, single moms, career moms. There was also a lot to discuss related to the events that transpired as a result of “that night”. I think that most women, especially moms, will find this book an enjoyable read.

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  • http://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=100003406084872 Pamela

    When I began reading this book, aactully my first Giffin novel, I had not a clue what it was about. I refused to read reviews, allowing the book’s jacket to be my only insight. A wise move since the anticipation simmering page by page and the unpredictability of what lay ahead in the pages of the first two-thirds of this book were terrific.Therefore, I will do the same; I won’t reveal the “heart” of this book. I will only say that Emily Giffin is a gifted writer, as you all knew and I now know, whose words flow seamlessly and beautifully on the pages.I will say that Heart had me fooled at checkout. With its purple, heart-ribboned cover, I was sure I would soon be reading a lighthearted, uplifting story of family, love, and endings with a smile.Instead, I will say that the journey of reading this novel slowly filled me with sadness and frustration. I was irked and annoyed by certain characters, while I was overjoyed with and adored others.After finishing Heart of the Matter, I can easily give it 4 stars and honestly say I “really liked it.” I liked the way the chapters moved. I liked being able to lose myself in Giffin’s relatable writing elegance. I really liked a handful of souls in this novel.I just didn’t like the way I felt after reading it.Maybe the quote that seared my “heart” the most just 28 pages into the book can explain why:“It is a feeling that has never wavered. Life isn’t always fun, and is almost never easy, I think, as I return to the kitchen in my trouble-shooting mode, ready for my second cup of coffee, but I am in love with my husband and he is in love with me. It is the constant in my life, and will continue to be so, as our children grow, my career changes, friends come and go. I am sure of this.“But I still find myself reaching out and knocking twice on our wooden cutting board. Because you can never be too sure when it comes to the things that matter most.”Likewise, the above quote attests and the Mindful Readers agree: Heart of the Matter boils fear in the bellies of its women readers. A powerful novel.